I was actually engaged in a live-in relationship as early as I was 16-year old. But after learning the truth about marriage as taught by Bible, I immediately corrected my mistakes and made it sure that I and my partner would be married before living together again.
I want to share you an article of the Iglesia Ni Cristo, published in a Pasugo-God’s Message magazine:
Why is Live-In Relationship Not Allowed in the Iglesia Ni Cristo
Today, many people consent to live-in arrangements, that is, living with and having a sexual relationship with someone, but not married (Macmillan English Dictionary, p. 837). This has now become a common practice in many parts of the world. However, ever since God created the first man and first woman, sexual relationship should been confined or limited to married couples (Gen. 1:28; 2:18-24).
Therefore, any sexual relationship outside marriage is considered as adultery or fornication. Apostle Paul explicitly taught against fornication which live-in partners engage in: “Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, now homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God” (I Cor. 6:9-10 New King James Version, emphasis ours). Cohabitation or live-in, then, is definitely against God’s law. Thus, members of the Iglesia Ni Cristo (Church of Christ) are prohibited to do such. The apostle even attests that fornicators will not inherit God’s kingdom.
Aware of the commandments of God, the members of the Church of Christ will never succumb to the continuing decline of moral values of the people of this world for the Bible says, “Do not follow the majority when they do wrong or when they give testimony that perverts justice.” (Exo. 23:2 Today’s English Version).
Source: PASUGO- GOD’S MESSAGE. Issue: October 2018. Page 2.
I am inviting you to examine the Iglesia Ni Cristo.